My "AHA" Moment

I'm beginning to wonder when my "Aha" moment (as Oprah calls it) will come. I am well into my 7th month of pregnancy, I can feel him move all the time, we are buying things for him and having baby showers, but it still seems so surreal! In a matter of 2 months I will have a baby! I cannot seem to wrap my mind around the fact that there is a growing little person inside me! I feel like there is so much stuff we still need or do we really need it? (diaper genie, a plethora of different bottles, pacifiers, high chair, bouncers, etc) Everyone is telling me different and I hate to have a bunch of stuff that we won't use!
I keep wondering what he will look like, who he will act like, how our dogs will adapt, etc. Am I capable of being a full time working mother with 2 dogs and a husband that travels a lot? Will I be the overprotective mom or be the easy going mom? It is all very overwhelming, not to mention the comments that keep coming from people about "how life is about to change". Really? Like we didn't realize that before? This is something we have both wanted for so long. Maybe we aren't quite as prepared as we should be, but who really is? I honestly don't see how my mother did it all by herself. I know if she can do it by herself then surely we can do it with the help of our family and friends. But as it comes down to the wire, the time is passing so fast and i don' t want to look back and regret that i didn't take time to realize the miracle that is happening in our lives...